This is a place for me to put my thoughts about mine and my fiance's upcoming Wedding into words, to organize all my plans and ideas, and to share my Wedding Process with friends.
...Mainly for their opinions and point of view. So please, comment. :)

The Checklist

Well, I suppose the first thing I should do is make a checklist (in no apparent order) of everything that needs to be done in the long run. Then I can figure everything out from there... If you've noticed I've forgotten anything, feel free to comment and let me know.... No, please... let me know. Seriously. lol.

• Pick a Date ✓
• Pick the Church ✓
• Pick a Venue
• Make a Timeline
• Make a Budget Outline
• Pick the Bridal Party
• Marriage License / Certificate
• Apparel
• Vows : Our own, or standard?
• Wedding Programs ("Who's who" in the bridal party)
• Bridal Party Gifts and Guest Favors
• Decor (Color scheme, Table Cloths & Runners, Centerpieces, etc...)
• Church Decor
• Entertainment
• Photography / Videography
• Unity Candle (homemade)
• Flowers / Bouquets
• Hair, Make Up & Nails
• Cake
• Song List
• Guest List
• Card Box for Gift Table
• Cocktail Hour??
• Ring Bearer Pillow & Flower Girl Basket
• Garter
• Invitations
• Misc: Guestbook, Photo Booth

I will check things off of this list only when they are absolutely, completely 100% done and taken care of... I'm going to post my ideas about what I would like to do someplace else. :)

Centerpieces...

So, if you've read my blog before then I'm sure that you would have seen the pictures of the centerpieces I came across and loved near the bottom... Well, last night I put together a sample centerpiece that is just a little bit different but also very similar to the ones I found online... and I love them! I think they came out perfect! And they are definitely going to be affordable as well!

This is a picture of it in a somewhat lit area...



And this is a picture of it in the dark, more of how it would look in the reception hall...

Booked the Church!

Well, we booked the church today! :) We're getting married on Saturday, September 10th 2011 [9.10.11] at 3:00pm. The ceremony will take place at St. Ninian's Cathedral.
How exciting!

Daddy Daughter Dance

I'm really leaning towards "My Little Girl" by Tim McGraw.

Gotta hold on easy as I let you go
Gonna tell you how much I love you
Though you think you already know
I remember I thought you looked like an angel wrapped in pink so soft and warm
You've had me wrapped around your finger since the day you were born

You beautiful baby from the outside in
Chase your dreams but always know the road that'll lead you home again
Go on, take on this whole world
But to me you know you'll always be, my little girl

When you were in trouble that crooked little smile could melt my heart of stone
Now look at you, I've turned around and you've almost grown
Sometimes you're asleep I whisper "I Love You" in the moonlight at your door
As I walk away, I hear you say, "Daddy Love You More"

Your beautiful baby from the outside in
Chase your dreams but always know the road that'll lead you home again
Go on, take on this whole world
But to me you know you'll always be, my little girl

Someday, some boy will come and ask me for your hand
But I won't say "yes" to him unless I know, he's the half
That makes you whole, he has a poet's soul, and the heart of a man's man
I know he'll say that he's in love
But between you and me
He won't be good enough

Your beautiful baby from the outside in
Chase your dreams but always know the road that'll lead you home again
Go on, take on this whole world
But to me you know you'll always be, my little girl.

**All songs can be found in the music player at the bottom of this page.

First Dance

A couple songs I like:

Your Everything - Keith Urban

The first time I looked in your eyes I knew
That I would do anything for you
The first time you touched my face I felt
Like I've never felt with anyone else

I wana give back what you've givin' to me
And I wanna witness all of your dreams
Now that you've shown me who I really am
I wanna be more then just your man

I wanna be the wind that fills your sails
And be the hand that lifts your veil
And be the moon that moves your tide
The sun coming up in your eyes
Be the wheels that never rust
And be the spark that lights you up
All that you've been dreaming of and more
So much more, I wanna be your everything...

When you wake up, I'll be the first thing you see
And when it gets dark you can reach out for me
I'll cherish your words and I'll finish your thoughts
And I'll be your compass baby, when you get lost

I wanna be the wind that fills your sails
And be the hand that lifts your veil
And be the moon that moves your tide
The sun coming up in your eyes
Be the wheels that never rust
And be the spark that lights you up
All that you've been dreaming of and more
So much more, I wanna be your everything...

Be the wheels that never rust
And be the spark that lights you up
All that you've been dreaming of and more
So much more, I wanna be your everything...
I wanna be your everything


Bless the Broken Road - Rascal Flatts

I set out on a narrow way many years ago
Hoping I would find true love along the broken road
But I got lost a time or two
Wiped my brow and kept pushing through
I couldn't see how every sign pointed straight to you

[Chorus:]
Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like Northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you

I think about the years I spent just passing through
I'd like to have the time I lost and give it back to you
But you just smile and take my hand
You've been there you understand
It's all part of a grander plan that is coming true

[Chorus]

Now I'm just rolling home
Into my lover's arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you

That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you.

**All songs can be found in the music player at the bottom of this page.

Random Ideas

Umbreallas
Since we'll be getting married in September, and it very well could rain, I was thinking it would be nice if everyone in the Wedding Party had matching umbrellas... and I bet it would look pretty cool in a photo op. I'm thinking red would be the best color for them, but I'm not sure yet.

Tablecloths
White table cloths with alternating red and black runners down the rows.

The Wishing Tree

So, I'm sure some of you wont know what a wishing tree is... I had no idea until recently either. The basic principle is for guests to leave their well-wishes for the couple on small hang tags that they fill out and then hang on the “tree” using the tags provided. They can sign their name then write well wishes, advice on being married, draw a little picture... basically anything they want. Then when all is said and done we'll take the card off of the wishing tree and put them in our Wedding Book. :)

Here is a little poem that I like that we would put at the base of the tree to explain the concept.

As we begin our Journey
A brand new Mr. and Mrs.
We could surely use
Your Advice and Good Wishes.

Jot down a Memory,
A reminder of the day.
Draw a doodle or picture
If your not sure what to say.

Share with us your Wisdom
About Marriage, Love, and Life,
The secret to being a good Husband
Or a thoughtful, loving Wife.

Please don't forget
It would be such a shame
to hang your card on the tree
Without signing your Name.


So, what do you think? Good idea, bad idea?